Tyler Talks
In this free weekly newsletter, international best selling author and speaker on the topic of Autism, Tyler McNamer, shares many personal and effective strategies to make autism more workable.
Popular to Me: Choosing What You Truly Like
Hello AutismWorks Community,
When people talk about “what’s popular,” they usually mean what most people are watching, playing, or listening to. I look at it differently. I think about what’s popular to me. A lot of what I enjoy—music, video games, TV, movies—is off the radar. Still, it matters t...
Oct 14, 2025
Choosing the Challenge: Stepping Into Bigger Sensory Experiences
Hello AutismWorks Community,
Some people like to stay where it’s calm. I often do, too. But there are times I choose to test the edges of my comfort zone and try something louder, brighter, or busier—on my terms. This edition is about challenging high-stimulation experiences by choice, pacing it ...
Sep 30, 2025
Known for Their Work
Hello AutismWorks Community,
This edition spotlights public figures who are known first for what they do—their craft, achievements, and impact—and who have also shared that they’re on the autism spectrum. The goal isn’t to define them by a diagnosis, but to show how their contributions speak for ...
Sep 23, 2025
Handling Criticism And Feedback—Without the Shutdown
Hello AutismWorks Community,
Criticism and feedback can feel sharp—especially when it comes fast, loud, or wrapped in vague language. I’ve learned that the goal isn’t to avoid feedback, but to handle it without spiraling. This is how I filter tone from content, ask for clarity, and turn ...
Sep 09, 2025
Handling Criticism & Feedback—Without the Shutdown
Hello AutismWorks Community,
Criticism and feedback can feel sharp—especially when it comes fast, loud, or wrapped in vague language. I’ve learned that the goal isn’t to avoid feedback, but to handle it without spiraling. This is how I filter tone from content, ask for clarity, and turn ...
Sep 09, 2025
The Power of a Single Focus
Hello AutismWorks Community,
In a world that praises multitasking, I’ve found something different works best for me: one clear focus at a time. When I can give my full attention to a single task—writing, organizing, learning a skill—my mind settles, my stress drops, and my best work shows up. Thi...
Sep 02, 2025
Building Trust, One Small Step at a Time
Hey AutismWorks Community,
After taking time to observe people (“recon”) and carefully choosing who belongs in my circle, there’s still one more important piece to talk about—trust.
For me, trust doesn’t happen quickly. It takes time. I’ve learned that trust is something you build slowly—through ...
Aug 12, 2025
Observation Leads to Wise Connections
Hello AutismWorks Community,
In the last article, I talked about “recon”—my habit of quietly observing people before stepping into a social situation. It’s something I still do today. Watching from a distance gives me insight into what’s going on, what people are doing, and how they treat each ot...
Jul 22, 2025
Watching Closely, Learning Deeply, Choosing Wisely
Hello AutismWorks Community,
When I walk into a new place or a crowded setting, I tend to go into what I call recon mode. I observe—quietly and carefully. Always have.
It’s not about being shy or distant. It’s how I learn. I take time to watch what people are doing, how they act, and how they tre...
Jul 15, 2025
Boundaries Are a Form of Kindness—To Ourselves and Others
Hello AutismWorks Community,
Coming off the excitement of the street dance, there’s something important worth talking about—something that can often go unnoticed in loud, energetic settings: personal space.
For many of us, especially those on the autism spectrum, physical boundaries matter. Somet...
Jul 08, 2025
Finding Your Footing in Loud, Crowded Places
Hi AutismWorks Community,
There’s a street dance coming up soon—and I’ve been thinking about what that means for someone like me. Loud music, big crowds, unpredictable energy… for many people in the autism community, that kind of setting can feel overwhelming. And I get it—because I’ve lived it.
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Jul 01, 2025
One Connection Can Change Everything
Hello AutismWorks Family,
In a world that often emphasizes group dynamics and social circles, the quiet magic of a one-on-one connection is sometimes overlooked. But for individuals with autism—who may find crowds overstimulating or social rules confusing—these deeper, more personal relationships...
Jun 24, 2025
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