Would you believe me when I say that partying is a skill to master? May not have been hard for many, in fact, so many people are looking forward for another social gathering involving food, drinks, and entertainment. I... wasn't so much way back in the day.
When parties would come up as a topic of choice, I would get so scared and nervous of the thought of parties. Why was that? For my case, it was:
Oh the confetti! That was the worst! I remembered one kid threw a bunch of confetti at me and just wanted to go home. Were we against parties when I was little? Nope; Mom and Dad knew some things can be challenging for parties, but that has been the idea of the challenges in the first place. To be challenged to better myself, because they know I can be better then what I was currently.
In a way, we learned how to celebrate properly; And there have been so many things to celebrate about. However we celebrated; Small ones like...
"How does it feel to get your work done?"
"I feel like dancing!"
I love dancing! Been doing it since I was a toddler. Why is it so important?
It's another form of communication! I never knew how to form words when it comes to social interactions, so instead, dancing is one of the things I would do to communicate in a way; A unique way to bond with someone or with other people when there are people to dance with.
One challenge I had was loud music, and there are a lot of loud moments when it comes to dances, learning about people coming together to dance, I challenged myself to handle the noises so I can dance with others! Sure would do just about anything just to spend time with people in my peer group, and the dances was a great example on what I would do to have a good time being with others while doing one of my favorite activities, and that is to dance.
Today, I still enjoy a good dance here and there. Sometimes when I hear good news or anything positive that someone told me, I...